“Ur a asshole!” those were the last words I yelled at my ex-boyfriend before stomping out of the room. He was the most juvenile self obsessed jerk I have ever know.. Not to say that most men are any better. They are all a mix of immature, driven by sex, don’t understand our feelings, lazy, and don’t understand that a good time doesn’t revolve around drinking sports and guy friends.
My ex-boyfriend was the kind of guy that would laugh at his own fart. The problem wasn’t only that he had the since of humor of a kid in middle school but. when I wanted to casually have dinner with my friend and her boy friend the boys snuck of to watch “the game”. I cant even have a casual dinner with friends because he thinks that’s boring and that the game is more important then the 4 of us spending time. The last time he was suppose to plan a romantic evening I came home expecting to have a romantic evening he had his friends over and was grill burgers and hot dogs. Responsibility was not his strong point either if I didn’t nag that man to death he probably wont ever do what had to be done.
Have u ever noticed that when you are at the club the girls with the lowest cut out fits always have a guy trying to dance on them or that when guys are being helpful and good for a hole day they expect some thing in the bed room that night. I’ve figured out this is because guys have one single soul purpose in life SEX. Its what drives them its what gets them up in the morning. Most guys don’t brush there teeth because they need to keep there teeth health to eat or to avoid the dentist most do it because a girl like a pretty smile. Why do guys do to a gym? Its not to stay fit… if you want to stay fit run around the block a few times. They go to the gym because they want to look sexier. Its not totally there fault its why the human race survives because people are genetically hard wired to want sex so that they can make babies so the species will survive or there family name or what ever dads are telling there sons these days.
I’m not sure if they don’t know what to do when they see negative emotion, if they just don’t care or if they just don’t understand basic human interaction. Either way if you are crying or in a bad mood or depressed don’t expect them to know what to do. I was actually tickled till I stopped crying when my dog ran away. Tickled seriously that’s almost as dump as me kicking u in the junk because your hyper sure it may get you to calm don’t but its not the right way to do it. Come on read a love novel or something! Also if a girl is hurting from something don’t be that macho guy. We all know you are capable of pretending to be a stud (even thought your not) and sure that great when you are with your buds but if there is serious emotional problems it is ok to not be many for a little while your junk isn’t going to shrivel up I promise.
Men are capable of being very lazy. They can spend all weekend laying around on the couch watchen tv and not being proactive. I know pretty much ever girl that has lived with a guy has had 2 deal with this. Guys leaving the toilet seat up… really how hard is it 2 just put it back down. Or when they leave there under wear on the floor when they go to take a shower. It just doesn’t seem that hard to fix but it seems to be a skill lost on most men and it pure lazyness and forgetfullness. Even when they go and try to help out around the house they do a half ass job. Us women don’t expect an ocd kind of clean but put in some serious effort please!
Men and women have a totally different idea of fun. Women enjoy social and cultural activitys and men love drinking “socialy” and flexing there egos with other men. The root of the problem is girls and guys have fun in different ways*add more* *develop*
Guys and girls have different goals thought processes and idea of fun. They are not motivated by the same thing and they don’t really fully understand each other but in the end they always seem to find a way to make it work (for alittle while at least). *add more*
I think I just wrote a feminist hate speech :’(
